Finding Mr Right
Finding Mr Right
Many people complain about not being able to
find the right person for them. This is a problem for
women and men alike. It could be we are too busy, or that
we are being far too picky. But in most circumstances, it
is as simple as being ‘closed’ to what we see. Society
today is like a beehive; hectic, squashy and fast paced.
Here are a few tips, to help you find the perfect ‘Bee’
for you.
- Project You.
Don’t pretend to be
someone else. I know what you are thinking; it sounds like
that age-old cliché everyone has heard before. But it does
work. Have you ever seen a movie, where the guy wants the
girl so bad he makes a huge story up about himself? And she
hates him cause he lied or he was arrogant or
self-centered? I know you have, we all have. We can always
see the outcome for them, but we can never see it in
ourselves. Did you know that when you leave the house
grumpy, you attract all the grumpy people around you? Ever
had a bad day go pear shaped, go from bad to worse? I’m
hearing a lot of ‘Yes’.This is everything to do with your
aura. What you do and how you feel affects the type of
person who will be attracted to you. When you project a
happy, complete persona; people with those same qualities
will be attracted to you. But it works the other way too.
When you are feeling incomplete and insecure; you will
attract people who are the same.
- Re-energize Yourself.
This will
work for anyone, be they male or female. Because guys have
just as many insecurities about women as women do about
men. We are all floating on the same boat, but as long as
we are all convinced the others are unapproachable, we wont
get anywhere. So take some time for you. Take a moment to
think about what you want for you. Don’t work to hard on
what you want from someone else, because if you are true to
yourself, the right person will be attracted to you. If you
work too hard on finding someone who will complete you, you
may end up with one half. That half may not be for you, you
will be two halves of a person, and not a whole entity. It
may sound far too new age for you by this stage, but hear
me out. This can enlighten an existing relationship,
re-ignite your boring job or even spark new confidence in
everyday movements. Center yourself; fill your body with
energy. Balancing the negative with positive takes
practice, but soon your body will effortlessly balance
itself. This will give you confidence, allowing you to be
who you are. Focus on your goals, your life and where you
want to be. You may be surprised with what you find, but it
could be the key to unlocking your creative and sexual
power.
- Cut Your Own Canoe.
They say life is a journey, but do we all have to travel in
the same way? Not in the least. I say; traverse your own
path. If your path involves an airondition'd car, then
embrace the keys; if you more suited to a slow walk on the
grass, then kick of your shoes an enjoy it. Whatever way
your journey takes you, embrace it. Don’t try to follow
someone else; you may not be able to keep up. Take each day
as it comes, try to leave your bedroom happy. Each day is a
new start; try not to take the previous day with you to the
next. This can only drag you down, and the people around
you will notice. You don’t only affect yourself in life,
you imprint on everyone around you. Life is but a grand
web, every movement sends out vibrations. Send out good
ones, and good will come back to you.
Everyone has energy, male and female, but sometimes it can be
affected by our past. Maybe some event has turned your energy
off.
This can also harm your present self. Practice makes
perfect, so practice channeling your energies. Fill your body
with energy, practice increasing that amount. It can affect
your sexual appeal, making you more attractive to the opposite
sex. You may notice a difference but people around you will
notice. They may not know exactly what is there, but they will
know. But with everything, have fun.
Don’t stress. Stress can drag you down. Alter yourself
for a month. If it works, you will be better off because of
it.
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